Why do people always moan about how old they look, YET take no care in their appearance?

Im sick of people i know telling me they feel old and look haggard--YET never make any effort to try to remedy it, im not talking face lifts and tummy tucks, im talking those annoying whingers who complain that they can't get a man because they feel ugly, without sounding insensitive, pick up the makeup box and apply it 5 minutes before you leave the house, and stop making yourself OLD. i have no sympathy.